Been awful quiet around here lately. Oh, but I guess since I maintain this blog, that would be my fault. Sorry ’bout that.
Christmas Season is in full swing here. I think in the last week I singlehandedly kept the dairy farmers in business with all the butter I’ve purchased for baking. I’ve also managed to kill off my sweet tooth so feel free to FedEx me a salt lick for Christmas.
Sooo, let’s get the not so cool news outta the way. Put my cat to sleep right after Thanksgiving. That sucked. I miss him. Blane contends that he’s going to grow up to be Iron Man, rocket into Heaven, and steal Isaac away from God. I guess he misses him too.
New chemo isn’t much fun. But I complained to my oncologist and he will be giving me even more souped up drugs to counter nausea. Also, I think I had a weird reaction last time (my mouth felt like it was filled with marbles), so I’ll get doped with Benadryl tomorrow. Bring a dolly ’round and wheel her home, folks.
Ok, now the good stuff. I had this really cool experience this week – a lot of people would chalk it up to a coincidence, but I know better. Last year the church identified some families at a local school that were in need for the Christmas Season. I volunteered to help Tina, a recently divorced mother of three who was unemployed and living with a friend until she could afford housing on her own. I got gifts for her children and something for her, supplemented it with food collected from the church, and delivered it to her right before Christmas. It was then I learned her ex was an aggressive man who was violent with her. She left him, but there was a fear that he may be hostile towards the kids when they were with him. I advised her to contact CPS and consult with them for an investigation. And then I walked out of her life. Over the last year, I’ve felt such guilt over that. I should’ve done more. I should’ve checked in on her, provided some support. In the last month, I’ve been praying a lot about her, and also asking for guidance. I asked God to help me find her again, and then help me do the right thing.
I went to a client’s office the other day for a Christmas lunch. SHE WAS THERE. She knew she remembered me from somewhere and when I told her, it was like this flood between us. What a wonderful connection! I asked God to help me find her, and He put her there right in front of me!! I’m happy to say that things are MUCH better in her life, on all fronts. She told me God stayed with her the whole time and has provided for her. We exchanged info and we’ll be going to dinner soon to catch up. I’m still in a state of awe. Coincidence, schmoincidence.
Also of note, I want to introduce a new member of our “family.” Recently, I decided that with all the good in our life, it was the right time to share our resources and love with someone in need. So Amner is now my family’s sponsored child, through Compassion International. Amner is 7 years old and lives in Guatamala; I’m so looking forward to getting to know him and his family as he progresses through the program. Compassion will be providing educational, spiritual and medical support to Amner as he attends a Student Center in his town. It’s a wonderful way to help a child and family in need in such a poor area of the world. I hope we can make a difference in his life.
So that’s the goods! I’m off to wrap the last of the Christmas gifts and then enjoy the rest of this blessed season. How the Grinch Stole Christmas, anyone??