Crickets Chirping….

Been awful quiet around here lately.  Oh, but I guess since I maintain this blog, that would be my fault.  Sorry ’bout that.

Christmas Season is in full swing here.  I think in the last week I singlehandedly kept the dairy farmers in business with all the butter I’ve purchased for baking.  I’ve also managed to kill off my sweet tooth so feel free to FedEx me a salt lick for Christmas. 

Sooo, let’s get the not so cool news outta the way.  Put my cat to sleep right after Thanksgiving.  That sucked.  I miss him.  Blane contends that he’s going to grow up to be Iron Man, rocket into Heaven, and steal Isaac away from God.  I guess he misses him too. 

New chemo isn’t much fun.  But I complained to my oncologist and he will be giving me even more souped up drugs to counter nausea.  Also, I think I had a weird reaction last time (my mouth felt like it was filled with marbles), so I’ll get doped with Benadryl tomorrow.  Bring a dolly ’round and wheel her home, folks.

Ok, now the good stuff.  I had this really cool experience this week – a lot of people would chalk it up to a coincidence, but I know better.  Last year the church identified some  families at a local school that were in need for the Christmas Season.  I volunteered to help Tina, a recently divorced mother of three who was unemployed and living with a friend until she could afford housing on her own.  I got gifts for her children and something for her, supplemented it with food collected from the church, and delivered it to her right before Christmas.  It was then I learned her ex was an aggressive man who was violent with her.  She left him, but there was a fear that he may be hostile towards the kids when they were with him.  I advised her to contact CPS and consult with them for an investigation.  And then I walked out of her life.  Over the last year, I’ve felt such guilt over that.  I should’ve done more.  I should’ve checked in on her, provided some support.  In the last month, I’ve been praying a lot about her, and also asking for guidance.  I asked God to help me find her again, and then help me do the right thing. 

I went to a client’s office the other day for a Christmas lunch.  SHE WAS THERE.  She knew she remembered me from somewhere and when I told her, it was like this flood between us.  What a wonderful connection!  I asked God to help me find her, and He put her there right in front of me!!  I’m happy to say that things are MUCH better in her life, on all fronts.  She told me God stayed with her the whole time and has provided for her.  We exchanged info and we’ll be going to dinner soon to catch up.  I’m still in a state of awe.  Coincidence, schmoincidence.

Also of note, I want to introduce a new member of our “family.”  Recently, I decided that with all the good in our life, it was the right time to share our resources and love with someone in need.  So Amner is now my family’s sponsored child, through Compassion International.  Amner is 7 years old and lives in Guatamala; I’m so looking forward to getting to know him and his family as he progresses through the program.  Compassion will be providing educational, spiritual and medical support to Amner as he attends a Student Center in his town.  It’s a wonderful way to help a child and family in need in such a poor area of the world.  I hope we can make a difference in his life.

So that’s the goods!  I’m off to wrap the last of the Christmas gifts and then enjoy the rest of this blessed season.  How the Grinch Stole Christmas, anyone??


6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Jo Ann
    Dec 19, 2010 @ 13:52:18

    Hey Harmony,
    First let me say, I am sorry about your cat. If you are anything like me, they are our second set of kids. I for one believe they are in heaven. After all, Christ is coming back on a white hores.
    I can not grasp how trying your chemo is, but I say Praise God for it.
    As far as you running into Tina, no doubt in my mind, that was a God thing. Gotta love it.
    I know the great feelings and blessings that come from sponsoring a child. We have our Jenny, who is in the Phillipians. She is now 12, and we have been her sponsor for 10 years. Where does the time go?
    Rebecca and I spent Friday making 30 dozen pecan wedding balls. It was great fun. It too takes 1 cup of butter per batch. YUM.
    Hope you and your family have a Blessed and Merry Christmas.


  2. Aunt Rebecca
    Dec 19, 2010 @ 17:37:12

    We’ll be in prayer for a BETTER (less bad?) reaction to the chemo tomorrow. I love reading again about your “God” encounter with the lady from last year. I’m so happy to hear about your Compassion child! We were so blessed to have Ana Belen as part of our life for many years, until she graduated this year from compassion.

    Love you, Lady! You continue to be a source of encouragement and hope for all of us.


  3. Michelle ~ Blogging from the Boonies
    Dec 19, 2010 @ 17:51:45

    I found your blog because of mention of Compassion International. I am going to pray for your treatment, though. I can’t imagine how tough it must be, but I know that prayer is powerful. I do hope that your relationship with your new sponsored child brings blessings to you. I can’t tell you how blessed we are by our 8 Compassion kids.
    May God bless you and give you strength, sister. 🙂


  4. Mom
    Dec 23, 2010 @ 20:23:00

    …there is meaning in this all. I am very proud of you.



  5. Mom
    Mar 04, 2011 @ 19:18:06

    It has been eeeeeerrrrrriiiiiilllllly quiet lately. Do you need writing material? :o)

    Love you. My Beauty,



  6. Sue
    Apr 22, 2011 @ 13:55:48

    I work at Blane’s school. I just wanted to say that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love and peace to you all.


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